Every guy loves the fun girl. You know the girl in the bar who is having a blast by herself, not caring what people think. The girl who can walk up to any guy and introduce herself but doesn’t feel the need to be all over him all night. She is the ideal male fantasy, but she is also not real. Yes that night she is the best of both worlds. The girl who is a blast to hang out with but you don’t have to call the next day and she will still hang out again. The problem is that this girl also has a heart.
Men and women are DIFFERENT!!! Heck even all women are different. You can’t think what you would do in a situation and assume she will be thinking the same thing. While men are fairly simple; we don’t call because we truly are busy, I really do have other plans and I need to just have a night alone. Women will analyze every text, message, conversation and action. We don’t even mean to, it is just the way we are made. So while the girl is having a great time in the bar, continue seeing her and she will start trying to figure things out.
How do we solve these differences? Well women don’t overanalyze. If you are truly ready to date a guy make sure you are secure enough in your life and yourself to not look into his every move. Define yourself, don’t let a guy define you. Also never be afraid to just say I need to be alone to figure out what I want. This doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you, it is just a natural stage of life. Now for the guys, all you have to do is be honest. Don’t worry about hurting a girl, by being honest you will lessen the heartbreak. If you are really not that interested don’t lead her on because you are afraid of hurting her feelings, it hurts more when she gets her hopes up.
So I am going to focus on me for a little bit…who knows maybe I truly will find my knight in shining armor when I least expect it.
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