Wednesday, February 2, 2011

The Revelation of Letting Go

"You can't always get what you want, but you get what you need"

Somehow this is easier said than done but it is more true than any other fact in life.  We will always go for what we want first.  Whether it is the new laptop, the new dress or the hot guy...if it is in front of us we for some reason hear it begging us to buy, wear or date it.  But what we don't realize is the need for it.  The fact that we already have a working laptop, a closet full of dresses and the hot guy has nothing in common with you.  Instead of looking at things as new desires, look at them as chemicals.  Putting the chemicals in that your body needs like positive people, good music and self esteem are our needs.  Now filter out the bad chemicals like poor company, abusive relationships and needing acceptance and you can finally have a healthy purpose in life. 

At this point I feel like I have finally gotten off the roller coaster, I am still in that throw up, nausiated phase, but at least it is over with.  I can finally start to heal!  Keep your eyes open becasue with this new outlook the serial dater is on the loose and ready to start living!

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